You, all by yourself matter. You don’t need a single person to validate your worth, but if you are still working your way to that truth, think about someone, anyone, in your life who would miss you if you decided not to fight.
[It is yet another nugget of gold out of this wonderful woman. As I said before she has a point of view that not all of us do have. She went through the transformation from one side to the other.
Personally I cannot fathom or even begin to comprehend how someone would not be willing to fight for their life. To not fight for the most precious gift of all, the gift, that once it’s gone you don’t get another one; just does not compute.
There is no question I would fight, I cannot and will not strand my wife or my mother. My mother most importantly does not in anyway shape or form deserve to have to bear that grief because a criminal decided they were going to try and make me a victim. She has already lost my father and damn near lost my sister and I both, all within 2 years.
If someone brings a fight to my door by god I’m leaving with my boots on. Myself as a person as well as preventing the grief of my family is worth it. Robb asked today about plans for after action. In it he pointed out some family members may not be supportive of your defensive gun use. If this is the case, they may be family by blood, but that is it. True family would be overwhelmingly happy that you fought to remain with them for longer. If all else fails, you can seek solace in your non-blood family, that understands why you fought. I want my fellow law abiding gunnies to remain around for a long time. -B]