Through my online travels I’ve ended up meeting and getting to know a lot of people in digital space. Most of these people I would have never met otherwise and due to the nature of the online relationship I know more about them than many people I do know in meat-space.
So it’s a weird feeling thinking of someone as a friend that honestly I’ve never actually met in meat-space. I’ve got plenty of them, including a bunch I have also met in meat-space, but the saddest most helpless feeling is seeing one of my friends in trouble, with not a damn thing I can do. Especially when it drags on in a manner that doesn’t seem to end.
As another one of my friends said:
She’s going to be just fine. I mean really, whose side do you want to be on? Tam’s or cancer’s?
I betting on Tam.
Jennifer is right, Tam will be fine. It did however remind me of something that has been discussed before. The wonder that is the internet and the expansion and alterations to the boundaries of our “tribes”.
There are many who wouldn’t have moved into my circle of friends if it hadn’t been for this invention known as the internet. It’s nice having it here though because even in the middle of this whole mess I’m reminded of why I love this community and why I’m so glad to be a part of it.
Go give Tam some words of support. One of these day’s I’ll finally get to meet her, I’ve got some other friends who have met her and have had nothing but nice things to say about her personality in meat-space.
TMM is the owner, editor, and principal author at The Minuteman, a competitive shooter, and staff member for Boomershoot. Even in his free time he’s merging his love and knowledge of computers and technology with his love of firearms.
Many know his private name and information however due to the current political climate, many are distancing themselves due to the abandonment of Due Process.
She’s good folks, and can definitely use our thoughts and prayers… What she’s going through is NOT fun.
When I first met her in meatspace, I approached that table she was sitting at. The person she was talking to asked if we knew each other. Tam’s comment was that we’d met on the internet. Like it was the most normal thing in the world. She was right. It doesn’t matter if my only interaction with someone has been through this series of tubes, the friendship is just as real.
She’s good people and can use all the prayers we can muster. It’s an honor to share digital space with such awesome people.